ROCKWALL – Rockwall single mother and family violence victim Brittany Barnhill first met her abuser, Nick Welch, at a mutual friend’s party in Garland in December, 2012.
At first they were just friends. Her father was his grandfather’s dentist and they had a few Rockwall connections. What started as a casual friendship then became a relationship.
“At first it was a fantasy,” she said. “He was fun, loving, generous and fun. He swept me off my feet.”
As time went on, she said, he began emotional and mental abuse.
“He gradually became controlling but I wrote it off. Looked the other way. I had never been in an abusive relationship. I began questioning my sanity. I thought I was crazy. Eventually but slowly it became physical. Once the physical abuse began, it became an absolute nightmare. Bad to worse and fast. The last assault July 2, 2013, was clear and apparent I wasn’t crazy.”
“After I got in touch with his ex and found out he had done the same to her but worse to me – scared as I was that he’d kill me – I had to go to the police,” she said.
That was July 7, 2013.
Two weeks later, with the help of Rockwall County Assistant District Attorney Damita Sangermano, District Court Judge Bret Hall issued a protection order.
In August, after Welch was indicted by a Rockwall grand jury for sexual assault, he was arrested by Rockwall Police and spent five days in jail. He then pled guilty to a third degree felony of family violence and was sentenced to four years probation last February by Judge Hall. He now lives in Dallas and has not bothered her since.
“Not a word from him since the order of protection was put in place by Judge Hall two weeks after the assault,” she said.
Brittany will be telling her complete story Jan. 22, 7 pm, at a family violence prevention meeting hosted by Americans Ending Abuse and the Lillian Smith Family Violence Foundation in hopes of assisting other victims to get the help they need.
Rockwall County Criminal District Attorney Kenda Culpepper will also discuss what’s fueling the local increase in family violence and answer questions. Information will be provided to show area residents how to protect their family members from domestic violence, dating violence, child abuse and sexual abuse crimes. Law enforcement officers are also expected to attend and help answer questions.
The meeting will be held at the Gonino Center For Healing, 6720 Horizon Rd. in Heath, behind Baylor. It is requested that you RSVP to info@americansendingabuse.org or call J.J. Smith, 214-317-1718.
By J.J. Smith
The post Family violence victim Brittany Barnhill to tell her story at crime prevention meeting Jan. 22 appeared first on The Rockwall News.